(905) 415-1636

Who Keeps the Ring: Absolute gift versus gift in contemplation of marriage.

While we of course applaud Kim Kardashian’s recent engagement to Kris
Humphries and wish them nothing but happiness, our attention was drawn
to one thing in particular. The massive 2 million dollar engagement ring
presented to Kim is certainly an eye-catcher. Not that we would predict
any unhappiness in the future of the couple, it is an interesting question
to ask: What would happen to the engagement ring if the wedding is called off?

If this was to occur in Ontario, the most important thing to determine
would be whether the ring was given as an
absolute gift or whether it was
gift in contemplation of marriage. When a gift is made absolutely, then it does not have to be returned
at the breakdown of the engagement, it was given to the other person to
be their property completely. If, however, the rings was given on condition
that the couple get married the courts in Ontario in such cases as
Okahai v. Sharify and Marcon v. Cicchelli, have stated that the ring must be returned. While it may seem unfair,
in Ontario, the
Marriage Act states that the return of property is not based on whose fault the end
of the engagement was:

33. Where one person makes a gift to another in contemplation of or conditional
upon their marriage to each other and the marriage fails to take place
or is abandoned, the question of whether or not the failure or abandonment
was caused by or was the fault of the donor shall not be considered in
determining the right of the donor to recover the gift.

Some of the courts in Ontario, such as in
Marcon v. Cicchelli seem to have confused this point, and considered that one individual,
by causing the breakdown of the engagement, had breached the condition.
This seems to be contrary to the statute, and it is clear in the
Marriage Act that the most important question for anyone with an engagement ring; what
was the intention behind the gift of the engagement ring.

It’s also important to remember that this framework applies to any
gift during an engagement. A court is going to examine what the intention
was behind the gift. They will look at all of the evidence, and not just
rely on what the person claims their intention was, though that would
be admissible. So if things break down for Kim and Kris, all eyes will
turn to what precisely what was the understood intention behind that 2
million dollar ring.

More From the Feldstein Blog

Ontario Family Law, Translated

The statute is dense. The stakes are personal. These articles unpack the parts clients ask about most.

Case Blog

Razavi v. Golzari 2026 ONSC 2686

Background  The parties met in 2013 through mutual family and friends. Around the same time, the husband purchased a home in his sole name. Shortly after the purchase, the wife ... Read more

July 11, 2026 · 8 min read

Feldstein Family Law Group, P.C.

The Law Is Complex.
The First Step Isn't.

Free, confidential consultation with an experienced Ontario family law lawyer. One call can change everything.

Markham · Oakville · Mississauga · Vaughan

Call (905) 415-1636

Responses within one business day — often the same day.

Our Offices

Serving Families Across Ontario & the Greater Toronto Area

Four Feldstein Family Law Group offices across the GTA — close to where our clients live, work, and raise their families.

Markham

20 Crown Steel Dr Suite 8
Markham, ON L3R 9X9, Canada

Map & Directions

Mississauga

3464 Semenyk Ct Suite 213
Mississauga, ON L5C 4P8, Canada

Map & Directions

Vaughan

3865 Major MacKenzie Dr W Suite 107
Vaughan, ON L4H 4P4, Canada

Map & Directions

Oakville

209 Speers Rd Suite 5
Oakville, ON L6K 0H5, Canada

Map & Directions

Communities We Serve

Feldstein Family Law Group represents clients across the Greater Toronto Area — including Toronto, Markham, Oakville, Mississauga, Vaughan, Richmond Hill, Thornhill, Unionville, Stouffville, Aurora, Newmarket, Brampton, Etobicoke, North York, Scarborough, Burlington, Milton, Georgetown, Woodbridge, Maple, King City, and the surrounding communities of York Region, Peel Region, Halton Region, and Durham Region.