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An Affair to Remember (But Never Discuss) – Family Law News Blog

Blonde bombshell Michaele Salahi just had a bombshell dropped on
her when she was served with husband Tareq Salahi’s divorce papers in
Virginia. The Salahis are reality TV stars best remembered for crashing
a White House state dinner in 2009 honouring India’s prime minister.

Mr. Salahi is claiming that his soon to be ex-wife had an extra-marital
affair with Neal Schon – the lead guitarist for Journey. Perhaps Mr. Schon
can encourage the band to remix their most infamous track and change the
chorus to “don’t start believing.”

This isn’t the first time, and it certainly won’t be the last,
that a marriage is riddled with infidelity. The twist here is that in
the state of Virginia, adultery is a crime. It is only a misdemeanour
punishable by a maximum $250 fine, but it is a crime no less.

In her court documents, Ms. Salahi has elected to “plead the 5th” in this regard and she is refusing to comment on the alleged adultery.
According to TMZ.com, this is likely because the pre-nuptial agreement
in place between the couple states that if it is proven that Ms. Salahi
committed adultery then she loses all entitlement to
spousal support.

Interestingly, Ms. Salahi and Mr. Schon are dating openly, and have been
doing so for over four months according to TMZ.com. The question now is:
when did they start their affair?

Insofar as the law of Ontario is concerned, can a clause erasing someone’s
entitlement to spousal support as a result of adulterous behaviour be
built into a separation agreement or marriage contract?

Section 52 of the
Family Law Act reads as follows:

Marriage contracts

52.(1) Two persons who are married to each other or intend to marry may enter
into an agreement in which they agree on their respective rights and obligations
under the marriage or on separation, on the annulment or dissolution of
the marriage or on death, including,

  1. ownership in or division of property;
  2. support obligations;
  3. the right to direct the education and moral training of their children,
    but not the right to custody of or access to their children; and
  4. any other matter in the settlement of their affairs.

A simple reading of this section on marriage contracts would suggest that
the clause regarding infidelity found in the agreement between the Salahis
would be enforceable in a marriage contract drafted and executed in Ontario
by two Canadian residents. Not so fast!

Section 56(2) is an exception to the above, which reads as follows:

Provisions that may be set aside or disregarded

Clauses requiring chastity

(2) A provision in a domestic contract to take effect on separation whereby
any right of a party is dependent upon remaining chaste is unenforceable,
but this subsection shall not be construed to affect a contingency upon
marriage or cohabitation with another.

To my knowledge, no such law exists in Virginia, so Mr. Salahi may successfully
protect himself from any spousal support obligation. Too bad for Ms. Salahi
that they don’t live in Ontario.

I’m curious to know what you think. Is Section 56(2) of the
Family Law Act reasonable? Or do you believe couples should have the right to draft clauses
related to remaining faithful to their spouses?

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